Forgiveness Leads to Creativity

Did you know forgiveness leads to a creative mind so just before the new year hits, if you are wondering what to do different, then here is a resolution that might make your New Year absolutely Peaceful, Happier and Productive.

New Year Resolution : Forgive every single person, whom you feel has done wrong to you.

Why, you may ask?

When you forgive someone, you relieve yourself from all the accumulated negative emotions, tensions, anxieties etc and are able to perform better with a fresh and decluttered mindset, boosting your creativity and ultimately your overall productivity.

Sounds interesting? Well then Read on!

Even before we are born our brain starts its development in the womb, but it's more of an involuntary reaction to the environment we are in. But as soon as we take birth, we eventually get control over our brain activity. 

Combining all the information, we adopt a lifestyle and try to experiment everything we know. 

Many of you may have noticed about yourself, that you had certain genius traits when you were a kid, but as you grew up those traits vanished. That's simply because of certain experiences, incidents, accidents, and unwanted aspects of the learning process crowding and cluttering your essential brain activity. 

On an average for every one the brain activity is reserved to function at 50% by default standard. Now those who get an added advantage to boost or reinforce their brain activity tend to raise their ability by around 75% But those who do not compromise at all and follow strictly their passion or ambition without getting affected by any worldly affairs are able to utilise 100% of their brain activity. They are able to generate extraordinary results, which often earns them the title of Genius or Legends or prodigy etc. 

So what happened to the born or growing Genius in you? Why doesn't everyone end up being a genius?

One of the theories that I could understand and develop over the years is simple and straightforward.

CONTROL OVER EMOTIONS

Since a vague topic, i will only share one of the emotion, that triggers the most essential brain development

Ie Sadness. 

Experiencing Sadness, Grief, Tragedy, Sorrow, Abandonment, Loneliness, Tension, Anxiety etc leads to the most overwhelming development of our brain activity. If you can notice the world around you, you will see most influential achievements were achieved or developed passing through this specific Emotion.

Forgiveness is a conclusion to an impending sadness episode. When someone does wrong to you, and when you can't forgive, the emotion will bore deep down in your mind and clutter your brain activity. Even though you can do great, but you can't. That's why it is highly important to forgive and better to forget. 

It's essential for us to remain in control of our brain activity and carry on with our tasks, dreams and ambitions.

One can also choose to ignore, isolate, cut off rather forgive, sometimes due to ego, sometimes due to fear of facing the situation. It can be termed as an instant remedy or shortcut to solving the problem, but in the long term, any isolation hits back as missing elements in the ongoing chain of productive brain activity. 

It could be change of friends, school, workplace, society involvement, fellowship, relationships etc, any form of isolation can prove harmful in the later stages of life.

So, what really happens when you Forgive?

Your tension, worry, anxiety etc dies down in your mind because an act of forgiveness is the cut off signal where a settlement of emotional build up takes place. Your mind comes back to its resting position, decluttering itself and ready to continue with your destined tasks, dreams and ambitions. 

But constant triggers may render your brain weak in order to progress. If you are again and again falling into a situation of anxiety, bad experiences etc but forgiving to come out of it, the brain will find it as a pattern and affix to it. When anything becomes a habit, brain activity becomes stagnant, you expect to go from 75% to 100% but unfortunately, it never happens. 

Only when you break habits and push yourself out of your comfort zone, you become stronger to achieve greater developments.

Forgiveness leads to reconciliation. When any relationship is mended, there is a sudden outburst of positive emotions, which is almost equivalent to winning a prize or getting a gift from someone. Reconciliation also helps broaden social network and personal connections leading to greater probability to achievements

Forgiving Self is also an integral part our lives which often goes unnoticed and unattended. Sometimes we never forgive ourselves for some decisions and actions we committed ourselves, leading to self hate and bitterness, if you feel there is nobody else left to forgive, just forgive yourself by accepting what went wrong, doing best to rectify and finally treat yourself as a sign of self reconciliation.

It is also possible to remain decluttered and free from overwhelming elements hindering the progress of our overall brain activity, it's seldom natural, but over years of absorption and understanding of the world around us, some tend to grow and hold control in a set pattern where nothing affects their brain activity, such people often convert their life into lifestyle Gurus or Teachers sharing the same experience valuable for others who are on the same path. 

All in all, we always have a choice, what to do, when to do, how to do, the only decision is to Do. According to my personal experience I was able to push my brain activity all my life by taking control of my personal decisions i.e. forgiving others, and avoiding negative energies as much possible, what i realised over the years is that the constant change in my environment has both been the reason for my rise and fall. 

While I lost, I gained as well and eventually learned and accepted that life is such and will always be the result of my own thoughts & actions. Since forgiving is in my total control, it helped me to keep my mind clear, my ambitions set and unaffected, most times.

Act of Forgiveness is a chain reaction, if you forgive someone, that person may forgive someone else and the chain can carry on. One changed mindset for good can touch a thousand minds and can lead to a world of peace and happiness. 

To forgive is hard, but not impossible, even the scripture of various religions speak the same message. 

So to conclude, if you have never attempted to forgive someone ever in life, just try this new year

Here is what you can do

1. Write a Letter and send it via Facebook Messenger, WhatsApp, email etc.

2. Call the concerned person over Phone and talk.

3. Meet the person and share a meal.

I hope you were motivated, inspired, moved by this message and made a decision to forgive someone or everyone who has done wrong to you. If you feel more people should read this or simply know about this, do encourage them to forgive others, do share this message with them. Do share, copy-paste, tag etc so that the message of forgiveness travels far and wide this New Year.

Wish you a blessed, happy and prosperous New Year. May God Bless You!

Warm Regards

Jickson V George